The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 30 - Write a letter to your future mate saying whatever you want to say

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 30 - Write a letter to your future mate saying whatever you want to say

I am taking part in The Single Woman’s 30 Day challenge... More info is HERE. If you've took part leave a link below to your post I'd love to read it.

Write a letter to your future mate saying whatever you want to say.
 
 
Dear Future Mate
 
I don't really know what to say to you excpet for you to read this quote...
 
 
If you can stand by me, love me, support me and still look at me with all those things shining in your eyes when you see my worst I promise you will always get my best. :)
 
Love your future mate. ;)
 
What about you? What would you include in a letter to your future mate?


The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 29 - Who is your closest or most special friend that you’ve never met and what do they mean to you?

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 29 - Who is your closest or most special friend that you’ve never met and what do they mean to you?

I am taking part in The Single Woman’s 30 Day challenge... More info is HERE. If you've took part leave a link below to your post I'd love to read it.
 
Who is your closest or most special friend that you’ve never met and what do they mean to you? How did you cross paths? Talk about how you “met” them: Facebook, Twitter, an online support group, etc.
 
 
I don't have any close friends that I've never met. I recently joined a few support groups on Facebook and have started talking to a couple of people from there who I hope to get to know more. :)
 
They are inspiring, motivational and very supportive so I know they're the type of people I want in my life.
 
What about you? Who is your closest or most special friend that you’ve never met and what do they mean to you? How did you cross paths? Talk about how you “met” them: Facebook, Twitter, an online support group, etc.

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 28 - Describe a moment when you made a big, bold move. In any area of life: Career, Love, etc.

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 28 - Describe a moment when you made a big, bold move. In any area of life: Career, Love, etc.

I am taking part in The Single Woman’s 30 Day challenge... More info is HERE. If you've took part leave a link below to your post I'd love to read it.

Describe a moment when you made a big, bold move. In any area of life: Career, Love, etc.
 
When I think of a bold move I made I immediately think of when I left tech. I had studied there for three years and I believe I had gotten the most out of everything and had nothing left to give or take away from it. I had two months left until my official leave date although I'd finished my initial Business Administration course plus related courses I was still expected to attend classes and do the work everyone was doing until the ending date.. even though I'd technically finished..
 
I will hold my hands up and admit that I did have really bad attendance at tech but those weren't willy nilly days I decided to take off. Although they may have never gotten a full solid reason from me for most of those days I guess I believed that they didn't need to know.
 
I stayed off the entire week then went in on the Friday morning to tell them I was leaving and to sign a few sheets.. there was no sad moments, (although I didn't cry abit) or second thoughts I knew what I wanted and I did it! I will NEVER forget the feeling when I walked out of that building and felt the stress, anxiety and pressure lift from my shoulders, I felt so much lighter and happier!
 
In those three years I attended the tech my life went in all different directions and I changed dramatically. The 17 year old girl that walked into that building in 2010 came out a totally different woman in 2013...
 
I try to live life without regrets but I wouldn't be human if I didn't have any and I have quite a few regrets from those three years....
 
 
Ugh! I hope I didn't depress your Sunday! :(
 
 
Describe a moment when you made a big, bold move. In any area of life: Career, Love, etc.

The Single Womans 30 Day Challenge: Day 27 - Talk about something that you really, really, really love about yourself.

The Single Womans 30 Day Challenge: Day 27 - Talk about something that you really, really, really love about yourself.

I am taking part in The Single Woman’s 30 Day challenge... More info is HERE. If you've took part leave a link below to your post I'd love to read it.

 Talk about something that you really, really, really love about yourself.

Well this is easy but also hard because lately I've been loving myself more and more because I've realised that each and every one of us can all point out our faults to someone because NO ONE out there is ever going to be 100% happy with how they look (even people that say they are it's so not true... so I believe!) People can say we have great legs, or nice hair or what we're wearing is lovely but inside we'll be thinking I wish my legs were longer or skinnier... or my hair was smoother or even why did I wear this today! 

So thinking about what I love it's between... my smile or my hair...

Why do I love these things about myself you ask..

Well, I <3 my smile because there was a period in my life where I NEVER smiled so when I see myself smiling now it makes me happy to know I GOT OVER IT and feel like I can embrace the world! :)

After suffering years of being bullied because of my hair colour I actually LOVE it now.. I've dyed it red, blonde and even blonde highlights (as you can see below)

 
 
  

but now I'm like frig it I love ginger! YES GINGER.. I always maintained it was strawberry blonde when I was younger but I can even blame my fiery temper on my hair colour it's fab.. it's thick, in good condition, can style it anyway I possibly want why wouldn't I love it? ;)

What about you? What do YOU really really really love about yourself?


The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 26 - Name a song that makes you cry every time you hear it and why.

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 26 - Name a song that makes you cry every time you hear it and why.

It's nearing the end of The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge! :O and am skipping another day because I've never ever paid it forward! :) (To me am thinking the meaning of pay it forward is when you pay to move forward or up front in a situation? Am I wrong?? Let me know! :))

Info on the challenge is HERE. Once again if you're taken part please leave a link to your post I'd love to read them!

Name a song that makes you cry every time you hear it and why.
 
There's two songs and they are...
 
 
 Skyscraper by Demi Lovato -
 
This song will ALWAYS hold a special part in my heart and life and it's mainly because of what Demi Lovato was struggling with at the time she wrote and recorded this song and when she sings it's almost like you can feel and hear her pain. I have been through similar problems which is why this is special to me.
 
 
What Now by Rihanna


This song is just so perfect for personal reasons.
 
PLUS the very latest one...
 
 
What about YOU? What is a song that makes you cry every time you hear it?


 
 
 
 
 
 

Happy International Womens Day!

Happy International Womens Day!

 
HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMENS DAY!
 
Isn't it really bad I have no ioda what this day means or stands for or even how International Womens day came to be? Do you know what it means? Wanna explain it to me?
 
If like me you don't have a baldy here is the wiki page http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Women's_Day and the website http://www.internationalwomensday.com/ for more information (I know I'll be reading and checking it out later)
 
 

The Single Woman 30 Day challenge: Day 23 - Talk about a moment when you got annoyed with a married friend, a person in a relationship, or a person with kids.

The Single Woman 30 Day challenge: Day 23 - Talk about a moment when you got annoyed with a married friend, a person in a relationship, or a person with kids.

I am taking part in The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge. For more info check out HERE. If you're took part leave a link to your post I'd love to read it. :)

Talk about a moment when you got annoyed with a married friend, a person in a relationship, or a person with kids (Be honest! No judgement!)
 
I can't recall ever getting annoyed with a someone married, in a relationship or a person with kids which is quite odd cause normally am annoyed with alot of people... Nothing really comes to mind hmmm.... 
 
What about YOU? When have you ever got annoyed with a married friend or someone in a relationship or someone with kids?

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 22 - What fictional character in a movie, tv show, or book do you identify with and why?

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 22 - What fictional character in a movie, tv show, or book do you identify with and why?

I am taking part in The Single Woman 30 day Challenge, For more information check out HERE. If you're took part leave a link your post I'd love to read it.

 What fictional character in a movie, tv show, or book do you identify with and why?
 
With reading a lot of books I always identify apart of myself with different characters I believe it's something we can all do. Whether it be how a character acts, looks or dresses there may be similarities.
 
I believe I can identify most with Rae Earl from My Mad Fat Diary... From the thoughts she has about herself to her struggles of everyday life and her underlying problem with food plus the fact she's scared to eat in front of people! (I used to be to!) It's all very similar to what I've been going through so when I think about it that's the character I believe I could identify with.
 
What about you? What fictional character in a movie, tv show, or book do you identify with and why?

The Single Womans 30 Day Challenge: Day 21 - How would you pitch a reality show about yourself? To what network?

The Single Womans 30 Day Challenge: Day 21 - How would you pitch a reality show about yourself? To what network?

I am taking part in The Single Woman’s 30 Day challenge... More info is HERE. If you've took part leave a link below to your post I'd love to read it.

(I am skipping question 20... and going straight to 21! Woohoo!)

How would you pitch a reality show about yourself? To what network?
 
Okay prepare yourself cause av REALLY thought long and hard about this and also had a brain storming session with my sis so lets get started... (am acting like this is real LMAO)
 
It would defo have to be on E4 something along the lines and similar to My Mad Fat Diary although could be called The Ginger Blond.. (+Megan McDade came up with the name incase ya think am making fun of blonde's which am not.. but she may be ;))
 
Do you know sometimes when you're so serious about something but people think you're joking? WELL that happens with me alot..
 
A few examples....
 
1, I've been addicted to pigs for as long as I can remember. I also LOVE Miss Piggy apparently I'm like her because she's bossy and demanding and tells people what to do.. (I DON'T) A few years back I watching The Muppet's take Manhattan, The scene was of Miss Piggy and Kermit in a horse drawn carriage.. The wee old men Muppet's were in front and laughing at a pig and a frog being a carriage. At this point I got so offended and started ranting off to my sister that now wee boys watching this wil start calling all wee girls pigs in schools and it's not fair.. my sister kept yelling but she is a pig.. and I kept yelling at her telling her to stop being so childish.. so.. cue my surprise when I give * MISS PIGGY* a thorough look and figure out she is in fact a pig.. (I am not stupid and NO the name has never gave it away)
 
2, Living in Northern Ireland and being apart of the UK there is always talk about becoming apart of Ireland and becoming a United Ireland instead of staying part of the UK.
 
When I was watching the weather forecast a few days ago it said Ireland was dry and NI/UK were going to be wet and rainy.. so I got all excited thinking we would have dry weather to because we'd have the same weather as Ireland.. When I asked my sister this she laughed .......... and laughed.......... and continued laughing...... and coughed.... and once again laughed! Apparently it don't work like this...
 
3, Recently when reading a magazine I came across a little snippet that Kanye West wanted to get married in space. At which point I got pissed of how a father would want to leave his new child to get married in space.. (because obviously you couldn't bring a child into space) I started ranting about how surely Kim Kardashion would be more wise and tell him no.. When my mum asked what the big deal was I pointed out that it was reckless for him to want to go to space to get married because he couldn't be apart of his childs life then and she'd never meet him or get to know him and it would be horrible.. I said it takes 100 years to get to space and he wants to do this on a whim.. CRAZY! Yep I apologise because it doesn't take 100 years to get to space apparently it can take minutes... hours and days depending on your particular destination...
 
So yeah.. I think my reality show would be funny but dramatic.. I so need my own show it would be super awesome! :D LOL
 
What about you? How would you pitch a relatity show about yourself?
 
 


The Single Womans 30 Day challenge: Day 19 - What is something about you that people would be surprised to learn?

The Single Womans 30 Day challenge: Day 19 - What is something about you that people would be surprised to learn?

I am taking part in The Single Woman’s 30 Day challenge... More info is HERE. If you've took part leave a link below to your post I'd love to read it.

 What is something about you that people would be surprised to learn?

Something about me that people would be surprised to learn is I'm quite a shy, quiet and nervous person. Which can come off as me being rude or standoffish at times when I don't mean to be.

People may think that I'm being rude sometimes although the real thing is I just don't have a baldy what to say ow to act and am scared of the response I will get. If in a crowded room I automatically start to grow panicky my anxiety starts to seep in which is when I look for escape roots and my fight or flight kicks in!

I'd always have used the flight method and rushed to get me the hell outa somewhere that makes me feel awkward but recently by putting myself out there more I've become more confident in myself and it's actually my fight that sticks now. I realised it was me who thinks and puts things in my head so if I force myself to stop these thoughts I'm becoming  a more comfortable and relaxed person and more happy within accepting myself.

What about YOU? What is something about you that people would be surprised to learn?




The Single Womans 30 Day Challenge: Day 18 - If you could have a conversation with yourself in high school, what would you say?

The Single Womans 30 Day Challenge: Day 18 - If you could have a conversation with yourself in high school, what would you say?

I am taking part in The Single Woman’s 30 Day challenge... More info is HERE. If you've took part leave a link below to your post I'd love to read it.

If you could have a conversation with yourself in high school, what would you say? 

Honestly? My high school experience was hell so I'd babble the following in a rush and hope I take some of it in! :)

"Stop crying! Wipe those tears! Straighten your back and walk with your head held high! Oh and stop trying to starve yourself! These people surrounding you don't matter. They don't care about you so why do you care what they say or think? Quit putting so much on your shoulders and in your head that your're running for a way out.. you're running in the wrong direction! I promise things will get better!

That child that just yelled an insult, the boy who throws pens & stones at you everyday after school, that girl who said you should be dead for how you look, that boy that keeps doing evil things, is too wrapped up in their own boring life so they pick on yours. So what? You have bright ginger hair, you are not the skinniest person in the world. You have OCD and are incredibly annoying! At the weekend you have book-hangovers not alcohol infueled hangovers but none of that gives someone the right to say you shouldn't be here because of your personal uniqness!

I agree, you are going to make some terible decisions I would know. That boy isn't going to really care about you but befriending him will make you happy. That girl is a right bitch.. but you'll choose her anyway! Stop fighting so much with your head and stop putting so much pressure on yourself! You are young and you will need to forgive yourself!

Most importantly stop lying about how you really feel! Yeah you're struggling and need some guidence so accept help from the people around you and speak out! Speak about how you're feeling and stop yourself from getting to that extreme low point where you can't get back up!

Believe me when I tell you those people will fuck up your life in years if you don't put a stop to it now! Why are you missing school for some twerp who says you're fat? He probably can't even tie his own shoe laces!

So stop right now, Focus on what you want, need and love and do everything in you're power to make it happen... You'll be unpredictiable for a year but things do get better.. a few dreams even come true.. trust me I've lived them!" ;)

AND....... deep breath! Phew! Writing that post has sort of made my head clearer! I'm so glad I took part in this!
 
What about you? What would your conversation involve?

The Single Womans 30 Day Challenge: Day 17 - What are your spiritual beliefs and how do they impact your relationships/relationship status?

The Single Womans 30 Day Challenge: Day 17 - What are your spiritual beliefs and how do they impact your relationships/relationship status?

I am taking part in The Single Woman’s 30 Day challenge... More info is HERE. If you've took part leave a link below to your post I'd love to read it.

What are your spiritual beliefs and how do they impact your relationships/relationship status?
 
I don't really have any spiritual beliefs.. or really I just don't have a darn clue what this means.. :-/ so can I skip it? Pretty please?? I'm still racking my brain tryna think of what spiritual beliefs are.. cause I googled it and apparently spiritual and religious are different.. so for spiritual am thinking ghosts and stuff though I think I may be wrong.. maybe.. I do believe in ghosts and believe in other beings out there.. am a bit confused though!
 
Do you know what this means by spiritual beliefs? Do you have Spiritual beliefs?  

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 16 - If you planted a time capsule right now of your life to be opened in 20 years, what would be in it?

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 16 - If you planted a time capsule right now of your life to be opened in 20 years, what would be in it?

I am doing The Single Woman’s 30 Day challenge... More info is HERE. If you've took part leave a link below to your post I'd love to read it.

 If you planted a time capsule right now of your life to be opened in 20 years, what would be in it?
 
Ahh this is soo hard! A time capsule can be like quite big right? I have a few ideas so better get started..

Who opens the time capsule in 20 years? Me? someone else? Lets go with someone else!

I'd include a list of books that people ought to read because all the books wouldn't fit.. (would the paper rot in 20 years? Lets hope not!) On the list would be:
  • Obsidian (Lux #1) by Jennifer L. Armentrout because it is obsessively addictive!
  • The Siren (Original Sinners #1) by Tiffany Reisz because.. um.. it's really amazingly sexy?! (PLUS they may wanna try out some features the book contains)
  • The Future of Our Past (The Remembrance Trilogy #1) by Kahlen Aymes because I say you needa read it. That goes for anyone! This book is capital AMAZE BALLS!
  • Easy by Tammara Webber (This book is empowering and I believe all women should read it!)
  • The Pet Shop by KD Grace.. (Mainly because one ya read it you will want a Tino.. or will want to be Tino then ya can move onto The Siren by Tiffany Reisz and your mind will be open ;))
There would also be a list of authors to check out:
  • Paige Toon (This authors writing is addictive!)
  • Lucy Felthouse (If ya read keep a fan handy!) Will they have them in 20 years?
  • Natalie Anderson (Best romance author EVER! She will make you cry, laugh, and smile at the same time! Especially her story in Unfinished business)
  • Jana Oliver (She writes kick ass leading females! What more ya want?)
Maybe I should move on from books.. They'll have computers in 20 years.. so best to leave them a link to my book blog)
 
I'd also add a memory stick of songs they should listen to..
 
Songs by 30 Seconds to Mars
  • Closer to the Edge
  • Hurricane (The explicit video version because Jared Leto is HOT and they will get visuals of a couple of the books above)

  • This is War (Because I believe everything in that video)
  • Up in the Air
  • Do or Die
  • City of Angels
Better yet just check them out!
 
Plus other songs:
  • Survival - Eminem
  • Wrecking Ball - Miley Cyrus
  • Unconditional - Katy Perry
  • Born this Way - Lady Gaga

  • Hammer to Fall - Queen
  • Firework - Katy Perry
  • Fucking Perfect - Pink
  • Picking up the Pieces - Paloma Faith
  • Beautiful - Eminem
  • Skyscraper - Demi Lovato

I'd include a few pictures of my family and I plus my cat :)
A pig because of my obsession with pigs!
I'd include something related to OCD because it's a major part of my life..

Yeah.. maybe I went a little overboard..
 
What would you put into a time capsule?
 
(The videos above are shared from Youtube - I DO NOT OWN THEM!)

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 15 - Narrate a conversation between you and someone in your life who you never had closure with.

The Single Woman 30 Day Challenge: Day 15 - Narrate a conversation between you and someone in your life who you never had closure with.

Halfway through the 30 day challenge already I can't believe it! I hope the rest of it goes good. :) Todays thingy is..

Narrate a conversation between you and someone in your life who you never had closure with (a friend, an ex, a family member, etc.) What would you say? What would they say? What outcome would you hope for?
 
When I think about this one person instinctively comes to mind although I'm unsure whether or not i want to write this port about them.. I mean what if they EVER saw it? I know the options of them seeing this are limited so... lets do it! :)
 
I don't obviously want to share their name so lets call them... Tinker :) I'm going to change it up abit and write a letter instead then write what the outcome would be.
 
My letter:
 
Dear Tinker
 
We haven't spoke in 2 years and sometimes I can't even believe that we were such good friends at one point in our lives. We were so different that the first time we met we instantly clicked and your friendship made me believe in myself and learn to trust in my judgements and be weary of the people around me! (I hope I made you more sensible) Together we had many highs and many lows although we always got through the dark tunnel and out into the sunshine! ;) Our friendship lasted two years and at the time we both believed it was rock solid. I mean after everything.. what could possibly go wrong?
 
In our lives we'd both been dealt a wrong deck of cards at that point and together we got through it.. we did have some good times though right? Seeing in 2011 together on New Years Eve night.. going away for a three day residential trip .. skiving class to go shopping and also going to the wee dingy bar for drinks just around the corner from tech, also annoying the heck outa our classmates on plain purpose cause we thought they were an alien species as they didn't talk the way we did.. plus always getting told by our tutors to be quiet and to do our work..
 
There the memories that stand out and I wouldn't change them for the world. I'd rather not dwell on the bad ones because we had to many few of those and we made some bad decisions together that cost us alot I also believe we started changing to much that in the end we didn't know who each other was.
 
Our lives started changing dramatically different leading us in different directions and it was too time consuming to try and keep at it.. sure we stayed in touch through Facebook and texting but things were never the same were they? So much so that we didn't know what to say to each other so it was just left and we haven't spoke since.. I sometimes think about all the memories and I sometimes wish we still had that friendship but I do believe it could never be the way it was again.. we are just totally different than when we first met.. we've both grown up and become women not little girls making the bad decisions no more.
 
*****
 
Outcome:
 
I'd hope the outcome would be something we both would agree upon to just leave things the way they are and not try to pull at something that could never be again.. I know we'd both wish each other the best and also happiness but I know we'd never see each other again or hear from each other. The only time we'd know what each other is up to is by checking out facebooks..
 
*****
 
Phew thank gawd that's over! Todays questions has drained all my energy.. I need chocolate! :)
 
I'll leave ya with this... You are my Sunshine by Johnny Cash!
 
(Video from Youtube, I DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS)
 
 
 
What about you? How would you narrate a conversation with someone you've never had closure with go?